Hello
How do you feel?
That might seem like a strange way to greet you, but I believe how you feel is of paramount importance and is the basis of the work I do.
Let's play with this idea
Mentally scan your body. Do you feel any tension? If so, ask yourself what the tension feels like? Does it feel sharp, tight, edgy, or even prickly, perhaps?
Now think of something that feels satisfying to you. How do you feel now? Did you perhaps experience some relief, a softer feeling, or a sensation of letting go?
The big reveal
Switch between feeling tense and feeling at ease. Did you feel the difference? Did you notice that no-one did that for you?
This may seem simple, even pointless, but notice that this ability was within your power alone. I found this rare skill to be a superpower.
I'm Virginia Robin
Out of a career in law and a life full of wild experiences, I discovered that the way you feel is the platform from which you create your whole life.
Simple, not easy. And that's the fun part.
More fun.
You know you want it!
That's why I now live in paradise.
About Virginia
Reflective Mediator | 3 x Author | Artist | TEDx
After a painful yet profound revelation on how to live a more fulfilling life, Virginia experienced a radical transformation, stepping away from her 30-year marriage, 25-year career in law and the place she called home for over 44 years.
Evolving beyond the limitations defining the black-and-white legal world, Virginia embraced a more authentic version of herself, creating a colourful and creative portfolio career. Exploring the infinite potential offered by the laws of the natural world and their application to problem-solving, she discovered an untapped resource that became a game-changer for herself and in her approach to guiding her clients.
Drawing from her extensive professional and personal experiences, along with her qualifications in collaborative law, mediation and yoga, Virginia realized that conflicts stem from unnaturally self-imposed limitations.
Virginia’s 3-step model is grounded in energetic principles aligning with nature's laws - physics. Illustrating how our emotional states influence our reality and act as our primary guide through any conflict, individuals are empowered and uncover liberating solutions that are often overlooked in other methods.
Approaching dispute resolution from this perspective becomes transformative, as people are guided to solve their own problems and develop corresponding skills to create more worry-free spaces in their lives moving forward. Virginia jokingly refers to this process as moving from life’s ‘jailhouse’ into the ‘funhouse’.
Expanding further on that model for those grappling with seemingly insurmountable disputes, Virginia developed a Reflective Resolution Model - a novel accompaniment to traditional alternative dispute resolution processes.
Now residing in paradise on the Sunshine Coast, Australia, Virginia, unbound by her previously self-imposed limitations, leads retreats and workshops, writes and creates art reflecting her passion for creativity.
More than anything Virginia loves fun and laughs at herself often. You can laugh at her too as she tells her side of life's story about how she found herself in paradise, right here in her book, Not Guilty: Finding Peace in Three Simple Steps.